TRY TO MAKE YOURSELF

Many of us often deliberately engaged in such activities which teases our mind and make us restless. Our purpose behind such activities is to get praise in people eye for ourselves. We want to impress other and try hard to make them happy. But we forget this that nobody can make happy every one at the same moment.
To make others happy we becomes that what we are not in actual. By doing this we not only cheat others but we cheat ourselves too. And this let us in continuous discomfort which destroy our life.We should understand this that no one in this world is perfect every one has some flaws and this is not a thing to feel shame. We should satisfied on that what we are.  we have no need to be something for others. Because it is not possible to make others happy.
To make some one happy who really needs your help is a good thing. But it is not our responsibility to fix everyone problem. It is necessary to recognize our-self also, spend some time with our self which is more interesting and more beneficial.
Now when we know that we can't make everyone happy so why we do not try to make our-self happy which is possible. We  should work for our-self , for our betterment. Which make us an interesting personality and it will be the biggest achievement of our life.

We always says that i want a true friend . Why we haven't say this instead of finding a good friend i should become a good friend. we always busy in finding other people flaws and try to exploit them. Instead of this we should find flaws in our-self and try to become a better person..

WHAT MAKE PEOPLE UNHAPPY..?

I often think that animals are happy as long as they have health and enough food. In case of human beings scenario is entirely different .Man never get happy easily. Unhappiness come to him in different shades. If anybody disrespect him he gets unhappy.  If someone treats him badly he feel down. If their is clinical illness again he gets unhappy, whenever difficulties come to him he gets unhappy and frustrated. Their is no limit of  human beings unhappiness. Truth is this one who make man unhappy is he, himself not any situation or person.

He loves to think about little things. This makes him depress and this depression leads to inability to bring out the positive solution of his problems. He should realize this worrying is not a solution of any problem, it doesn't resolve your tomorrow's problem. It doesn't change any thing.He should understand that this anxiety is destroying him and limiting him to enjoy the beauty of life. Once he'll stop bothering about little things he'll regain trust in his self and will become free.

He compares himself to others and this comparison steals all his joys and happiness. He becomes bitter person and start losing self confidence. He has no idea what he is doing. He is just insulting himself. He should believe in himself that he is the one and only in this world no one can take his place. If one feels down because his partner is good in something than realize that no one is perfect in this world. All the human beings are different from each others. Oh man! you are unique and beautiful. Nobody else is you, love yourself .

He's reluctant to start next chapter of his life because he is stuck in his past. Past is gone it can't be change or replace and there is no other option rather accept it. A past is just a story or a lesson , so just learn from experiences of life. Let the past remain in past, forget about your future and live in present.

He doesn't allow himself to be happy because bad memories are haunting him and they are letting him forget his good ones. Because he compare himself with others. He worry about little things.  He want to live in his past and think about future while just forgetting his present. He want to be perfect. He depends on others. He doesn't want to forgive and in all this he forget to smile.If one want to live happily than he has to accept himself for what he is.  

you may not be perfect.....